Loss of a loved one

A bright light in my life burned out on Sept 9th, 2011 and my life came crashing down around me when I found out that he was gone. Life will be just a little bit dimmer for me.

My previous boyfriend, Jason, was 28 years old when he succumbed to a combination of medicinal allergy and septicemia. Due to the remote area that he lived in, it took 11 days before I found out. I never got a final chance to tell him that I still loved and cared for him before he was gone.

Please, please, please! Make sure to take the time to tell the people in your life how much they mean to you, that you care and love them despite any differences. I will always regret that I was unable to do that before My Jason was taken from me.

Adam

Oh no, I'm so sorry :(

It's very much important to let people know how much you appreciate them because there's no guarantees on time and you just never know what may happen tomorrow.

I'm very sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry for your loss Adam. My deepest condolences to you and yours.

Adam my heart goes out to you. Big bear hugz!

Kronis

Adam, my thoughts are with you. All too often we let loved ones move in and out of our lives without letting them know our feelings.

Thanks everyone for the kind words and support.

I took a couple of days this week and pampered myself by staying at one of San Diego's historical hotels...just the kind that I had always hoped to show Jason. :) It really helped a lot and it seems a little easier each day. I will always miss him but I am thankful that he was brought into my life to show me that I could love and be loved again after such a long time. My biggest obstacle now is to adjust my expectations for life after college since we had planned on waiting for me to graduate to take our relationship to the next level. I know that I won't ever find anyone like Jason again but hopefully I can find someone that will love me as much.

Adam

Big hugs Adam. It sounds like Jason was here to teach you about love and being loved and it sounds like he did a wonderful job.

{{{HUG}}}