I think the one main real reason for not joining a fleet was at the beginning your trying to find your feet, seeing what this and that does, what window to open to do this, and when your trying to learn, being bombarded with constant fleet invites, you know it becomes a headache, I daren't repeat half the stuff I was saying at my screen whenever a fleet invite popped up, but I think you can guess lol.
I joined this fleet not because of my sexuality, but really out of the respect I have for Brandon. I owe the guy alot.